In this current day and age it can be questionable if men have the capability to be monogamous. I would say many women question that due to how times have changed within the last 12 years or so. Social Media being one of the number one enemy's as to why many might have that mind set. Women......or if you use the famous word of this year (THOT) they have on less and less clothes, they are more open with show casing their sexuality and lets be honest.....they are also willing to do just about whatever, but can you really blame the men? They are said to be visual creatures and as Yo Gotti put it " It goes down in the DM."
Depending on what's under going in that man's life it's hard to keep a straight head and keep your hand out the cookie jar when it's consistently thrown and flaunted in your face. By all means I'm not excusing the behavior but presenting the case so you also see the other side.
In my humble opinion I feel a man will be monogamous for the right woman that god has chosen for him. We live in instant gratification times where we don't have to WAIT LONG for a number of things. I say this to the ladies: Stop getting caught up in needing to get married before thirty, stop jumping into pointless and meaningless relationships because your lonely, don't settle or excuse his bad behavior because he's cute or fine. Have standards, but be realistic. Don't ask a man to be able to fly to moon if you can't do the same.
"We have to recognize that there cannot be relationships unless there is commitment, unless there is loyalty, unless there is love, patience and persistence."
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